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January 27, 2010 | Tate Linden
For those of you that don't yet know, my wife and I are the proud parents of another wonderful baby boy. On 1/16/2010 Sarah brought seven pounds, six ounces of newly minted Linden into the world.  There were a couple complications after delivery, but I am exceedingly happy and proud to say that both Mommy and Baby are doing just fine.

That said... Let's get to the point of this post.  Baby Names.  More specifically, our baby's name. Upon hearing my second-born son's name I have received comments such as:

  • Oh. So you're naming your kids after presidents, are you? (Our eldest son is named Theodore/Teddy.)
  • Wow... That's... Interesting.
  • Why(?!) did you choose that name?
  • That child will need a strong constitution if he's going to handle that name.
Yep. Apparently the name has some negatives.

Interestingly though, nearly every negative we've received has been from people at least a decade older than I am. It's like there's some sort of translation error that hooks the name to some bad experience.  (And before you ask, We did not name him Saddam Hitler Linden.)

Those in their teens through their forties tell us the name is cool.

His name is Truman Maxwell Linden.

Comments we receive from our contemporaries seem to be centered around a single concept... That of course we're going to call him "Tru". Which, in fact, we do.  Upon our confirmation of this, the hep-cat crowd tells me that this is one of the coolest names ever.

Or at least that's the gist of it.

Initially I figured this must be because our combined baby-naming brilliance was too overwhelming to be appreciated by generations that came before mine, and while we named our child to honor someone in my wife's family tree, we selected Truman also for its versatility, and (to us) exceptional nick-name potential.  But now I'm not so sure that brilliance was involved.

My second thought was that the full name was so bad people were scrambling to come up with something that might improve it marginally.  I had myself believing this for a few days, too.

And then...

After two weeks of almost no sleep (and even less for my lovely wife) I'm more inclined to think all the fresh-faced young'ns just don't want to piss us off. 

Probably the right move.



 
5 Comments
Dr. Florence Webb Author Profile Page January 28, 2010 9:29 AM

I think not so, Tate.

The name IS a cool one (I affirm in spite of my age) but I think the older crowd knows of only one person with that first name: the reliably peculiar Truman Capote. Though the name has been at least somewhat popular in earlier eras, they are too early for current baby-boomers-and-up to be much aware of. There's Harry Truman - and that's a last name - and Truman Capote, and...
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I suspect your age-mates may not be sufficiently familiar with Truman Capote to make the negative association. And nobody in either age group will likely know much about Tru's 4x great grandfather Truman Herbert Goodenough, who incidentally was born before any of those names belonged to American presidents.

Anyway, this Tru is a solemn and deep little fellow as newborns go, and I for one can't wait to see what he will be like!

Tate Linden Author Profile Page January 28, 2010 5:20 PM

You seem to know a lot about both his namesake and the little kid himself. Who are you again? (Thanks!)

Maureen March 1, 2010 9:50 PM

The vote from the approx. 10 years younger crowd is that he'll get beat up a lot in elementary school. I'm just saying.. I wasn't the only one with that as an immediate reaction. I got that same exact answer every time I started a conversation with "Guess what my cousin just named her baby?"

Tate Linden Author Profile Page March 16, 2010 10:11 AM

Your thoughts are duly noted.

Maybe it's in how you deliver it? It's often that way with names. Saying it powerfully vs. tentatively can change perception.

Also... I had a President at a company I worked for whose last name was "Barfitt". He attributed his success to having grown up as a punchline.

Given Tru's size I'm pretty sure he's going to be the family linebacker (if I can convince the boss to raise the football embargo) or perhaps the one guy on the chess team that picks on the jocks.

Last? Just think of all the cool nicknames he can have. T-Max, Max, Tru, Little Man, The Man, T... Is it just because I used to name stuff for a living that I never seem to call him the same thing twice? Or is it because I watched too many SNL skits? (http://snltranscripts.jt.org/91/91grichmeister.phtml)

T-Max May 21, 2010 2:37 AM

How's Truman Maxwell Linden settling into his name then?

After thoughts?

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